i like the place that i am working in right now. it is very relax n all. lunch with my beloved wife, go to work together, breakfast together at times(if breakfast, confirm late. haha.), go back together, basically we do things together all the time, the time spent on Hyder is also together and that is good.

the more time u spend together, the better the relationship will be.(insha'Allah)
the more u invest in love, the greater the love u will have for each other.(insha'Allah)

btw, just to share, if i am not mistaken the story goes like this.

1 Shaykh said that LOVE goes both ways, it is natural. like for u n ur spouse, the LOVE was built in times of courtship and the time u went out together and the time u have with each other before marriage, after that u get married.

then the LOVE between u n GOD shows, when He chooses u instead of the others that He can give life to. the fact that He chose u specifically, other than any other sperms that can reach ur mother's egg, but why did He choose u? easy, it is because, He LOVES u.

the LOVE between our Prophet Muhammad (saw) and us. how do we know that he LOVES us? as per what i remembered below.
the Prophet (saw) went to the grave the night before his death and said that, he will join the people in the afterlife. he said that he will wait for his ummat at the gate of heaven and pick them one by one, then his companion asked, "how would u know if they are ur ummat when u never even meet them once in ur life and they dont even know u ya Rasulullah?"
the Prophet (saw) answered, "if a group of horses coming towards u accompanied by horses with white heads and white ankles, will u be able to pick the horses with white heads and ankles out?"
"of course ya Rasulullah." the companion said.
then Rasulullah (saw) responded, "then it will be easy for me too, because my ummat will have nur from their forehead and feet due to the wudhu' that they had taken during their lifetime."

i got plans for the future but only God can guide me thru the direction that i want to go. cos the difficulties that we are going thru will be rewarded as He knows best what is the BEST for us. of course we have to work on it, at the end of the day it is Him who decides ur journey, whether it comes true or not. insha'Allah everything will come thru. please pray that i get what i really dream of.

thank u.