I actually wrote a whole long post about the parent-teacher meeting we had with Hyder's teacher last week, and then deleted it because it felt too heavy.

But really, sometimes I wonder if I'm being a good parent. I would want to base it on just his achievements, but arghh sometimes people have such big mouths and think everyone wants their opinions, it really upsets me so much. Lagi best if it comes from people who aren't parents themselves.

"Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them"
— P. J. O'Rourke

On a whole different note, a female driver flashed us the middle finger and mouthed the F word after she didn't know how to maneuver her car around ours, at my parents' carpark area. It was actually our right of way, we were going straight afterall, and she was turning right into the lane next to us, but she turned way too far out, and couldn't make it. I guess we could have reversed a bit, but actually she should have just stayed put on her lane and let us through, and then she would have TWO whole lanes to drive on, haha, but no I don't know what went through her head, she suddenly did all those vulgarities and went straight, further into the carpark to do a u-turn instead.

I and Husband burst out laughing, also in puzzlement, coz it was such a simple solution how come she didn't think of it. Amidst all that laughter, I suddenly got very angry. Need to maki meh???

So I told Husband eh let's chase her. I will give her a piece of my mind, cantik nah muka nak maki2 orang senang gitu jer? Husband said let her be, don't make it be a huge thing, but I got angrier and angrier as the night went on - but hey now I'm ok, I'm all zen already HAHA. 90% of all life events is how you react to it .. or something like that kan? Haha.

I'm on halfday today. Husband has a work survey at 2pm, and then he'll be free, so we are going to fetch Hyder from Orchid Country Club, where he's at with my mom and sister, and then we'll spend the day together HOORAY! I miss my baby soooo much.

He's so clingy now, he often calls me at work and go "Mummee, I sayang youuuu. You kat mana? Why you work? You balik pukul berapa? You balik lah, I winduuu."

So heartbreaking. Yesterday Husband finished work early, so he went to fetch Hyder first, and then they both came to fetch me. By the time they reached my workplace at 6pm, Hyder was asleep. So we bought dinner to eat at home, including food for him, but he only woke up this morning. My mom called at about 10am just now to say that Hyder just ate 2 plates of rice, he was vehyee hungry! So cute lah.

40 minutes before I can go home. And about 2 weeks before our short KL trip, Insha'Allah!